Wedding costs

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The cost of "happily ever after" is rising faster than a stressed-out bride's
heartbeat.

According to The Knot's ninth-annual Real Weddings Study, released Tuesday,
the average cost of a wedding (excluding the honeymoon) increased for the
fifth-straight year in 2015, jumping 4.6 percent to $32,641. That represents a
new all-time high.Mike Steib, CEO of The Knot's parent XO Group, attributed the
steady growth to one key trend: personalization of weddings. Over the past few
years, brides have found ways to differentiate their wedding from others they've
attended. Often, that means spending more on the perfect band, or adding extra
touches.

"If you look back at your parents' weddings, they all look the same," Steib
said. "Everybody wore the same stuff."

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That's not the case anymore. According to The Knot's study, which surveyed
nearly 18,000 U.S. brides and grooms who were married in 2015, custom guest
entertainment has more than tripled since 2009, from 11 percent to 36 percent.
That includes a big spike in the amount of couples offering signature cocktails,
which has nearly doubled to 22 percent since 2008.

Keija Minor, editor-in-chief at Brides magazine, agreed that personalization
is playing a bigger role in couples' weddings, particularly as more of them foot
or split the bill. She added that many are looking for creative ways to make
their wedding stand out, as the rise of social media sharing means that
"everyone has seen a million weddings."

"An idea goes from fresh to cookie cutter really quickly," she said.

That's not to say that special add-ons are the only reason costs are rising.
Nearly every one of the 19 categories outlined by The Knot notched gains, with
some of the biggest dollar increases being tied to the reception venue and
band.

Despite their best intentions, however, it can be difficult for couples to
stick to a budget. That's because the majority of brides have never planned a
wedding before, so they get a lot wrong when estimating their costs, Steib
said.

"The planning finally comes and what is supposed to be rainbows and happiness
[is] Post-it notes and bills," he said.

For 27-year-old Amanda Howard, who will marry Andy Phelan on the beach in
Cape May, N.J., next month, several little tack-on costs snuck up on her,
including postage.

"You budget for your vendors, but we forgot about how much it would cost to
send out the invitations," Howard said. "We have to do our table numbers and I'm
like, wait, how much are these little things?"

Aside from those unexpected costs, Howard said she and Phelan stuck pretty
close to their budget. It helped that the couple, which is paying for all its
vendors, was able to bargain on certain costs, including an extra hour for the
photographer.

She was also able to negotiate a deal with the venue, for which her parents
are footing the bill. Because the couple is getting married on Memorial Day
weekend, she asked the venue if it would honor its cheaper Friday prices on a
Saturday. Howard said she was shocked when she was granted her request without
any further negotiation.

"If you have a dream in mind I would just say try to bargain," she said.

Of course, a bride's costs vary widely depending on where she is having the
wedding. Manhattan once again topped the list as the most expensive location,
with the average wedding costing $82,299. It was followed by Chicago, at
$61,265, and New York's Westchester/Hudson Valley region at $57,501.

The most affordable state to get married was Alaska, at an average
$17,361.

Source: Wedding Dresses